If you’re angry or frustrated as the adult, it’s okay and normal, and you can discuss with the child after they’re calm/de-escalated
Avoid the word “no”
Try not to feed off of their anger
Don’t get caught in a loop arguing
And don’t give in to power struggles
4. Distraction
Get the child’s focus of attention away from the situation, as this helps with the physical and possibly verbal responses until the child is ready to talk
Also, suggest the child gets a drink of water, engages their 5 senses, punches a pillow, etc.
5. Ask what happened/cause of anger
6. Then, validate their feelings and reflect
7. Finally, collaboratively speak with the child and come up with solutions and steps if a similar event were to happen
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